05/22/25 - SHIUR 514

Should Boys and Girls Turn to Friends for Dating Advice? Is it Helpful or Harmful?

Guest host: RabbiAri Wasserman, Author "Making it Work", "Making it ALL Work" (for women) and 10 other Seforim, Maggid Shiur, Yerushalayim
Speakers: RabbiShimon Finkelman, RabbiDaniel Feldman, Mrs.Aleeza Ben Shalom, Mrs.Penina Flug, Mrs.Adina Galbut
Categories: Marriage, Shidduchim
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Should a boy consult with his friends, like his roommate or chavrusa, if they think he should date a given girl?
Is there a problem discussing the attractiveness of a potential Shidduch with friends?
Have promising Shidduchim been ruined by what friends have said?
Should parents be involved in the Shidduch process? And, what if the child does not want his/her parents involved?

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Shiur Details

(21:28)

Rabbi Shimon Finkelman, Rebbi, Darchei Torah, Prolific Author
(35:51)

Rabbi Daniel Feldman, Rosh Yeshiva at Yeshiva University
(1:00:19)

Mrs. Aleeza Ben Shalom, international shadchan, relationship coach and author
(1:21:56)

Mrs. Penina Flug, LCSW – Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist
(1:21:56)

Mrs. Adina Galbut, MSW – dating coach

Conclusions and Takeaways

(1:45:07)

Rabbi Ari Wasserman, Author "Making it Work", "Making it ALL Work" (for women) and 10 other Seforim, Maggid Shiur, Yerushalayim

Shiur Reference Material

מראי מקומותמראי מקומות

Shiur 365 Riddle

A:

א- על פי פשט לפי שקרבנות אלו אינם בכלל קרבנות מוסף, ואלא שיש שו״ע הגר״ז המוסיף שני שעירים, ועיין שפת אמת מנחות לפי שלא הקריבו קרבנות אלו במדבר גם בזה״ז שאין ביהמ״ק קיים לא ראוי
ב- עיין משך חכמה שהיה לקוח קודם מרוח
ג- עדיין לא עלה על דעתי לאיזה גמרא בראש השנה (ודאי שאין הכוונה לרבי יהושע ור״ג לענין קביעת ר״ח), אבל לכאורה יש לציין גמרא שבת קטו במה שאמר איסור קניבת ירק כל היום אף שבעצם לא היה מתנגד רק למה שהיו מקדימים

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Should Boys and Girls Turn to Friends for Dating Advice? Is it Helpful or Harmful?
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