01/27/23 - SHIUR 405

Whom should you marry?

Speakers: RabbiYaakov Berman, Mrs.Bella Beer, Rabbi Dr.Jack Cohen

Categories: Marriage, Shidduchim

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How Makpid should we be on names in marriage (father in law and son in law with the same names etc)?
Can younger siblings get married before older siblings?
Marrying for money?
How important is the family (if there’s a sibling off the derech etc)?
Marrying into a family of Baalei Teshuvos?
Health in the family what do you have to divulge?
How should people be dating?
What common mistakes are they making?
How do you know if you are getting bad advice?

Shiur Details

Halachos of who you should marry

(16:47)

Rabbi Yaakov Berman, Rov Khal Beis Tefillah Lakewood, Av Beis Din Machon L'Gittin

How do you know if you are dating the right way?

(46:45)

Mrs. Bella Beer, Longtime Shadchan and coach, Shidduch columnist in the Yated

(1:05:35)

Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen, Renowned Shidduch and Shalom Bayis Coach

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20 Comments

Zev Landerer

Regarding the question of why a chassan and kallah holding hands by a mitzva tantz is not a problem of chibah b’rabbim, one could ask this in regard to holding hands when leaving the chuppah as well, which is the practice even in non-chassidic communities.

I would say that chibah b’rabbim is only when done unexpectedly in a casual setting between existing spouses, not something customarily done as a formality between two people who don’t even really know each other yet…